Can't we all just get along???

Think back to the time you were in a large group of unfamiliar people. Did you notice the people you gravitated towards were the ones you shared a common interest with? I know for me, when I'm in a new situation, nothing starts the conversation flowing better than finding that common ground. It can be sports, hobbies, just about anything. But as I enter my 7th year of practice, I have begun to notice that among health professionals, there is this innate distrust of one another. Almost like two dogs sniffing eachother, wagging their tails, but growling at the same time. We should be looking for the common ground (or as I like to think of it, the best interest of our patients) but time and time again, I'm amazed at the animosity that exists. So I have to wonder, can't we all just get along? Let's face it, as health professionals, our goal is to help people. We have very different approaches, but how can anything be accomplished when we're constantly criticizing each other? Wouldn't it be more productive to work together? Where's the harm in communicating with one another? I'm not saying as a chiropractor, I need to completely abandon my principles of health and start prescribing medication and recommending surgery, but I recognize that there is an appropriate time and place for medical intervention.Stating that could go a long way towards earning the trust of those patients who currently steer clear of my profession because of our sometimes overzealous  views of true health. Realistically, the majority of people in the world are not truly healthy, but it doesn't mean I can't help them. I may just need to soften the message of what I believe in. Would you seek the wisdom and expertise of someone who criticizes your choices? No. As humans, we gravitate towards those people who we share common ground with. So I shut down the lines of communication by chastising the patients whose health care decisions aren't in line with the chiropractic philosophy and pointing out the flaws in their "medical" diagnosis doesn't make me smarter or more qualified, it just causes more confusion for the patient. And medical doctors, who know very little about chiropractic, would benefit from spending some one-on-one time with one of us before making blanket statements discouraging patients from seeking chiropractic care. I dream of a world where medical doctors, orthopedic surgeons, chiropractors and physical therapists can co-exist and cross-refer peacefully because I honestly belive we all have a very important role in health care. Recognizing the positive attributes of each health profession and showing a little respect for one another and our individual areas of expertise would benefit those we want to help, the patients.